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Childhood Cancer Is Not a St. Jude’s Commercial

We’ve all been there. We see a bald headed beauty on a St. Jude commercial and think “aww, that’s sad.” and go about our day, right? Unless you can relate to that bald headed beauty because your child has cancer. Or you know a child with cancer. Then it becomes a harsh, unfair reality. It becomes a battle that desperately needs more awareness, funding and help.

I have a very love/hate relationship with those commercials. On the one hand, any awareness for childhood cancer is a good thing, but on the other, people literally think that is what childhood cancer looks like. A beautiful bald headed toddler running around with a smile on their face, a bow on their head and an IV pump in tow… or a 15 year old boy getting a visit from a local athlete. While that can be a small glimpse of childhood cancer, that is not the majority of childhood cancer.

You know, childhood cancer is UGLY. It’s grueling. It’s heart wrenching. It sends parents to funeral homes, nurses home in tears, siblings home alone and hospital beds full. It brings a grown man to his knees and doctors running in circles trying to save a 2 year old from going into respiratory failure.

Childhood cancer is full of mucositis, fevers, skin changes, vomiting, hair loss, a cold for you, a death sentence for them. It’s literally watching the light in a child’s eyes fade. Have you ever had strep throat? Multiply that by 5 million, add sores not just in your mouth, but all down your GI tract and then light them on fire. That’s how I could only assume the pain feels like when I watch kids get hooked up to a pain pump and not even be able to swallow for days on end. That is a common side effect of chemotherapy… THAT is childhood cancer.

I wrote a blog a month ago, The Happy Floor describing the strength and the resiliency that kids who have to battle childhood cancer have, but I never want you to get that confused with the hell they go through. These kids and their parents are the strongest people I know, but shouldn’t have to fight a battle never meant for them.

Watching a child battle cancer is hard to look at… this I know. But can you imagine watching them die because there isn’t enough funding and research to support a more humane cure? Because I have.

Do better, America.

#MoreThan4 #NotRare 

“This is childhood cancer. This was Charlie’s second of four doses of high dose methotrexate. This was at midnight and she was still awake because she hates sleeping in the hospital. Fluid overloaded because of all of the IV fluid she had to get to protect her organs from the chemo we gave her. I don’t share these photos often, because it is depressing and hard for me to look at. But our kids deserve so much better than the toxic chemicals we pump into their bodies to kill the cancer. Because of her treatment, she will always be at risk for developing secondary cancers. She will likely have long term side effects from the treatment, as most kids do. This is why I advocate for more awareness and more funding for childhood cancer research.” -Brittney Peter, mom of 2 year old Charlie, battling acute lymphoblastic leukemia
Here are a few places you can donate to, private organizations that do their own funding. 
Want to do your part, but look good while doing it? These companies give to childhood cancer research based off a percentage of their profit:
Fourth and Gold -> Donates 100% of profit in September, 50% all other months and donates a warrior shirt to a child with cancer with every purchase made
Love Your Melon -> Donates 50% of profit and donates a LYM beanie to a child with cancer with every beanie sold
Head Bands of Hope -> Donates 10% of profit and donates a headband to a child with cancer with every headband sold

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